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Mismatched sexual desire is a common challenge in relationships, but with the right tools and mindset, it can be addressed in a way that deepens intimacy and connection. This session is designed to help you and your partner understand each other’s sexual needs, communicate openly about desire, and find ways to bridge the gap that feel respectful and fulfilling for both of you.

In this session, you’ll explore:
* How to identify and understand the root causes of mismatched desire, including emotional, psychological, and physical factors that may be affecting your libido.
* Effective communication techniques to express your needs, listen to your partner’s concerns, and foster empathy and understanding without blame or shame.
* Practical strategies to create sexual intimacy that satisfies both partners, including compromise, scheduling intimacy, and exploring different ways to connect.
* Tools for building emotional intimacy and non-sexual forms of affection that help strengthen the relationship outside of the bedroom.
* Tips for maintaining desire in long-term relationships, reigniting passion, and creating an environment where both partners feel valued and sexually fulfilled.

This session provides a supportive and non-judgmental space to explore the dynamics of desire in your relationship and develop a customized approach to balance and fulfillment. You’ll leave with actionable steps and communication skills that can help both partners feel more connected, understood, and sexually satisfied.


This coaching session is designed to help individuals and couples address and navigate mismatched sexual desire. Through open communication, practical strategies, and a compassionate approach, this session offers tools to foster understanding, connection, and balance in your sexual relationship.

Navigating Mismatched Desire in Relationships

Do you feel like you and your partner never want sex at the same time?

Bridging the Desire Gap: Navigating Mismatched Sexual Desire in Relationships

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In this session, we’ll take a mindful approach to reassessing your relationship with porn, helping you shift from unconscious habits to intentional, empowering choices. We will explore the role that porn plays in your life, address any concerns or challenges, and create a personalized plan to integrate it in a way that aligns with your values and supports your sexual well-being.

In this session, you’ll explore:
* How to identify and break patterns of unconscious or compulsive porn use that may be affecting your self-esteem, relationships, or sex life.
* Strategies for integrating porn in a way that enhances rather than detracts from your sexual experiences, whether solo or partnered.
* Mindful viewing techniques to help you stay present and connected to your body and desires while consuming porn.
* How to explore ethical porn that aligns with your values, supports diverse and consensual sexual expression, and promotes a positive body image.
* Tools for open, honest communication with partners about porn use, addressing any concerns, boundaries, or shared desires related to its role in your relationship.

This session offers a safe, non-judgmental space to reflect on your current relationship with porn and develop healthier, more intentional habits that support your sexual growth, pleasure, and self-awareness. You’ll leave with practical tools for navigating porn in a way that feels empowering, balanced, and aligned with your personal goals.


This coaching session is designed to help individuals reassess and transform their relationship with porn in a healthy, mindful, and empowering way. Whether you're looking to reduce your reliance on it, integrate it into your sex life more consciously, or simply explore healthier viewing habits, this session offers personalized strategies for building a balanced, intentional relationship with porn.

Transforming Your Relationship with Porn: Mindful and Empowering Approaches

Want a healthier relationship to erotic media?

Positively Transforming Your Relationship with P*rn and Erotic Media

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This session is a one-on-one exploration of the different types of sex toys, their functions, and how they can best support your sexual desires, preferences, and needs. Together, we will assess your comfort level, explore various materials, sizes, and sensations, and discuss key factors such as your anatomy, relationship dynamics, and any special considerations like allergies or sensitivities.

You'll leave the session with:
* A deeper understanding of the different categories of sex toys (vibrators, dildos, couples' toys, etc.).
* Clarity on the types of stimulation that suit your body and desires.
* Recommendations for high-quality, body-safe products that align with your goals.
* Practical tips on how to integrate sex toys into solo or partnered play for enhanced pleasure.

Whether you're looking to explore something new or want to refine your existing collection, this session provides a safe, non-judgmental space to discuss your needs and receive expert guidance.


This personalized coaching session is designed to guide clients through the process of selecting the perfect sex toy that fits their unique needs and desires. Whether you're new to sex toys or a seasoned user, this session will help you navigate the wide variety of products available, ensuring that you make an informed, confident decision that enhances your pleasure and intimacy.

Find Your Perfect Pleasure: A Personalized Guide to Choosing the Best Sex Toy

Overwhelmed with the selections of pleasure products?

Selecting the Best Pleasure Products for You

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This session is an invitation to explore the power and joy of self-pleasure, allowing you to cultivate a deeper relationship with your body, desires, and pleasure. Through guided exercises and intentional practices, you’ll learn how to create sacred self-pleasure rituals that support your physical, emotional, and spiritual well-being. Whether you’re a beginner or looking to enrich your current practice, this session will empower you to embrace your sexuality with confidence and self-love.

In this session, you’ll discover:
* How to create a self-pleasure practice that aligns with your unique desires, needs, and energy.
* Techniques for mindful self-touch, breathwork, and embodiment that enhance pleasure and connection to your body.
* How to explore different types of stimulation and sensations, helping you uncover new sources of pleasure.
* The importance of self-pleasure rituals for stress relief, emotional healing, and self-care.
* How to integrate toys, tools, and fantasies into your practice for deeper exploration and fulfillment.

This session provides a safe, non-judgmental space to explore your sexuality, reconnect with your body, and prioritize your pleasure. You’ll leave with a personalized self-pleasure ritual that not only satisfies your sexual needs but also nourishes your soul, making self-love and pleasure a vital part of your overall wellness journey.


This coaching session is designed to help you deepen your connection with yourself through intentional self-pleasure practices. Whether you're looking to enhance intimacy with yourself, explore new sensations, or create meaningful self-care rituals, this session offers guidance on creating a fulfilling and empowering self-pleasure routine.

Embrace Self-Pleasure: Creating Rituals for Intimacy, Exploration, and Empowerment

Ready to deepen your self-pleasure practice?

Cultivating a Self-Pleasure Practice

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This session is designed for those curious about or new to the world of kink and BDSM, providing guidance on how to explore these interests with confidence, communicate with your partner, and find safe, supportive communities. You will learn how to identify your desires, approach kink conversations with clarity and openness, and ensure that all experiences are consensual, safe, and fulfilling.

In this session, you’ll explore:
* The basics of kink and BDSM, including different dynamics, roles, and forms of play, so you can better understand what appeals to you.
* How to have open, honest conversations with your partner about your desires, boundaries, and expectations, ensuring both parties feel comfortable and respected.
* Tools for setting and respecting boundaries through negotiation, consent, and aftercare practices to ensure safe and enjoyable experiences.
* Safety tips for exploring the kink and BDSM communities, including how to identify reputable events, online spaces, and resources that align with your interests and values.
* Techniques for navigating new dynamics, understanding power exchange, and exploring new levels of intimacy while maintaining trust and emotional connection.

This session provides a safe and non-judgmental space to explore your curiosities, ask questions, and gain the confidence to integrate kink into your relationship. You’ll leave with practical communication tools, a better understanding of kink dynamics, and strategies for finding and joining supportive communities where you can safely explore and grow.


This coaching session is designed for individuals or couples who are new to kink and BDSM and want to explore these dynamics safely, while also learning how to have open, honest conversations with their partner. This session provides the tools and resources to navigate these desires, communicate effectively, and find supportive, like-minded communities safely.

Exploring Kink & BDSM: Communicating Desires and Finding Your Community Safely

Exploring Kink & BDSM

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This session is a personalized journey into menstrual cycle awareness, designed for cyclic beings who want to tap into the power of their natural rhythms to enhance their physical, emotional, and mental well-being. You’ll learn how to work with your cycle rather than against it, using each phase to your advantage for optimal performance, creativity, and self-care.

In this session, you’ll explore:
* The four phases of the menstrual cycle (menstrual, follicular, ovulatory, and luteal) and how each phase affects your energy, mood, and focus.
* How to align your activities, goals, and self-care routines with the strengths of each phase to maximize productivity and avoid burnout.
* Practices for supporting your body’s hormonal shifts through nutrition, exercise, and mindfulness.
* Techniques for managing challenges like PMS, fatigue, and emotional fluctuations in ways that promote balance and well-being.

Tools for embracing your cyclical nature as a source of power, creativity, and intuition.
By the end of the session, you’ll have a personalized cycle-hacking plan that helps you move through your month with greater ease, intention, and vitality, turning your cycle into a powerful tool for achieving your goals and nurturing your overall health.



This coaching session is designed to help cyclic beings harness the power of their menstrual cycle for personal empowerment, productivity, and well-being. By understanding and working with the natural rhythms of your cycle, you can optimize your energy, creativity, and self-care, aligning your life with your unique hormonal flow.

Hack Your Cycle: Empowerment and Optimization Through Menstrual Cycle Awareness

Cycle Awareness for Cyclic Beings

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This session offers a deep dive into ethical non-monogamy (ENM), where you’ll explore how to create healthy, consensual, and transparent relationships that align with your desires for non-exclusivity. Whether you’re curious about polyamory, open relationships, or swinging, this session provides tools and frameworks to help you navigate ENM in a way that honors all parties involved.

In this session, you’ll learn:
* The various forms of ethical non-monogamy (e.g., polyamory, open relationships, swinging) and what might resonate with your values and desires.
* How to initiate open and honest conversations with current or potential partners about your interest in non-monogamy.
* Tools for setting clear boundaries, managing jealousy, and maintaining emotional health within non-monogamous dynamics.
* Best practices for establishing trust, transparency, and ongoing communication to ensure all partners feel respected and valued.
* How to ethically explore new connections while maintaining existing relationships, creating a strong foundation based on consent and mutual understanding.

Whether you're new to the concept or seeking support in navigating an existing ENM relationship, this session provides a safe space for exploring your needs, addressing any concerns, and learning how to cultivate fulfilling and respectful non-monogamous partnerships.


This coaching session is designed for individuals and couples interested in exploring ethical non-monogamy (ENM). It provides guidance on understanding different non-monogamous relationship styles, communicating openly with partners, setting boundaries, and navigating the emotional aspects of consensual, non-exclusive relationships with integrity and respect.

Navigating Ethical Non-Monogamy: Building Relationships with Integrity and Openness

Exploring Ethical Non-Monogamy

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This session is crafted to support you in finding meaningful relationships in today’s dating landscape, offering guidance on everything from optimizing your online dating profile to exploring conscious dating communities. We will focus on understanding your values, identifying relationship goals, and creating a personalized approach to dating that feels authentic and aligned with your needs.

In this session, you’ll discover:
* How to create an authentic, engaging online dating profile that reflects your true self and attracts compatible matches.
* Best practices for navigating dating apps and websites while maintaining emotional boundaries and avoiding burnout.
* How to recognize red flags and stay safe when dating online.
* Alternatives to online dating, such as finding conscious dating groups, attending in-person events, and exploring niche communities that align with your values and relationship goals.
* Tools for cultivating self-awareness and understanding the energy you bring into dating, fostering connections that are built on shared values, emotional intelligence, and mutual respect.

Whether you're just starting to date, returning to the scene after a break, or simply looking to refine your approach, this coaching session will provide practical tips, personalized feedback, and conscious strategies to help you find fulfilling, lasting connections—both online and offline.


This dating coaching session is designed to help clients navigate the complexities of modern dating, both online and offline. Whether you're new to dating, looking to improve your online presence, or seeking alternatives to the digital dating scene, this session will provide personalized strategies for finding meaningful connections with intention and confidence.

Conscious Dating Mastery: Navigating Online and Offline Dating with Confidence

Navigating Online and Offline Dating with Confidence

Conscious Dating in the Modern World

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In this powerful one-on-one session, you will learn the secrets to experiencing multiple orgasms, expanding your sexual pleasure, and connecting with your body in a new, more fulfilling way. We will cover essential practices that involve breathwork, mindfulness, muscle control, and energy awareness to help you achieve multi-orgasmic states, whether you're engaging in solo play or partnered sex.

During this session, you’ll explore:
* The physical and mental foundations for achieving multiple orgasms.
* Techniques such as edging, breathing exercises, and pelvic floor strengthening to enhance your control and pleasure.
* The role of relaxation and awareness in maintaining an orgasmic state without over-stimulation or discomfort.
* Methods to sustain and repeat orgasms, both in solo sessions and with a partner, ensuring a fulfilling, deeply satisfying experience.

This coaching session provides a safe and supportive space to explore your desires, develop new skills, and discover the full spectrum of your orgasmic capacity. Perfect for individuals or couples who want to increase sexual pleasure, this session empowers you with practical knowledge to integrate into your sex life.



This transformative coaching session is designed to guide clients through the practice of achieving and experiencing multi-orgasmic pleasure. Whether you’re curious about deepening your connection to your body or enhancing your sexual experiences, this session offers techniques and insights to unlock your full orgasmic potential.

Discovering multi-orgasmic pleasure

Did you know that you have the capacity for multiple orgasms?

Mastering Multi-Orgasmic Pleasure: A Step-by-Step Guide to Unlimited Orgasms

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I am a board certified clinical sexologist and certified sex coach, that’s passionate about helping you rid yourself of sexual performance anxiety–once and for all.

If you have been struggling with sexual performance for over six months without improvement, I understand the frustration...

You’ve likely tried…

* expensive medications 
* numbing creams
* thinking about something distracting
* visits to your doctor
* cock rings

And all just to last a few seconds longer....

I am also willing to bet that:

* You avoid intimate situations out of fear of performance issues
* You experience anxiety even before sexual encounters
* You feel embarrassed and stressed, which only worsens the problem
* You question your self-worth and masculinity
* You feel so frustrated because it's just so unfair...

If that's you, I’m thrilled to tell you that I’ve developed a system for coaching men, just like you, to reprogram your nervous system and mind-body connection so that you can begin to fully enjoy sex at any time.  

**Wishing your body would show up for you and your partner during date night?  In the car?  In the shower? ** **This program is for you.**

I draw upon my extensive experience as a clinical sexologist, certified sex coach, and sexological bodyworker to help my clients gain control of their orgasm which means so that they can:

* be more present
* achieve penetrative orgasms
* approach all sexual experiences with confidence
* become multiorgasmic
* and so much more!

So, if you want to learn how to fully control when you come WITHOUT:

* medications
* numbing ointments
* gadgets
* supplements
* searching reddit for advice…

Join me on the pleasure filled journey towards sexual confidence and ejaculation mastery!

Here’s to your sexual performance and confidence!

In pleasure,
Dr. Norelyn

1.  Comprehensive assessment of sexual concern 2.  Delivery of proven techniques to reset the mind-body connection around orgasm 3.  Creation of personalized plan

Session 1:  Sexual Endurance Mastery Program

1.  Results tracking 2.  Delivery of proven techniques to reset the mind-body connection around orgasm 3.  Tailor action plan as needed

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Want to finally control your orgasm and last longer than you’ve ever dreamed in bed?

Sexual Endurance Mastery Program

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8 personalized sessions designed exclusively for partners holding the fort while their loved ones are on deployment. These sessions offer a unique blend of emotional support, coping strategies, and fun experiential ways of connecting while away. In addition to the sessions, check-in calls provide ongoing connection and reassurance. Our program also includes emergency support, ensuring that you have a reliable anchor during challenging times. Strengthen resilience, foster personal well-being, and navigate the deployment journey with confidence.

Embrace the opportunity to dedicate time to self-pleasure practices, and discover new ways of connecting with yourself and your partner.  As the deployment nears its end, my program focuses on readiness for the reunion, offering support and guidance for a smooth reconnection with your partner.

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8 personalized sessions designed exclusively for partners holding the fort while their loved ones are on deployment. These sessions offer a unique blend of emotional support, coping strategies, and fun experiential ways of connecting while away. In addition to the sessions, check-in calls provide ongoing connection and reassurance. Our program also includes emergency support, ensuring that you have a reliable anchor during challenging times. Strengthen resilience, foster personal well-being, and navigate the deployment journey with confidence.

Embrace the opportunity to dedicate time to self-pleasure practices, and discover new ways of connecting with yourself and your partner.  As the deployment nears its end, my program focuses on readiness for the reunion, offering support and guidance for a smooth reconnection with your partner.


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8 personalized sessions designed exclusively for partners holding the fort while their loved ones are on deployment. These sessions offer a unique blend of emotional support, coping strategies, and fun experiential ways of connecting while away. In addition to the sessions, check-in calls provide ongoing connection and reassurance. Our program also includes emergency support, ensuring that you have a reliable anchor during challenging times. Strengthen resilience, foster personal well-being, and navigate the deployment journey with confidence.

Embrace the opportunity to dedicate time to self-pleasure practices, and discover new ways of connecting with yourself and your partner.  As the deployment nears its end, my program focuses on readiness for the reunion, offering support and guidance for a smooth reconnection with your partner

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Embrace the opportunity for self-pleasure & new ways to connect while holding down the fort.

Homefront Resilience Coaching Program

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Love Armor: Fortify Your Intimacy" is a holistic coaching package designed for military couples seeking to enhance and heal their intimacy. This transformative journey goes beyond traditional couples coaching that focuses on communication skills and understanding emotional needs by prioritizinges sexual intimacy to ensure that couples not only endure, but thrive throughout the unique challenges of planned and unplanned separations.  Couples will embark on a journey to fortify their love, fostering a resilient foundation that extends seamlessly to every aspect of their intimate connection.

Know more about Love armor:  Fortify your intimacy - An intimacy healing journey for military couples with Dr. Norelyn Parker

Discovery Call with Dr. Norelyn Parker

1.  Introduction to the unique intimacy challenges military couples face.
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3.  Setting goals for strengthening love and enhancing pleasure through the challenges ahead.

Session 1:  Uniting in Intimacy

Establishing methods to stay connected during periods of planned and unplanned physical separation.

Session 2:  Communication strategies

1.  Prioritizing the importance of pleasure and connection in sustaining a healthy sex life when your partner is away.
2.  Creating your unique action plan for managing each of the 9 stages of deployment.

Session 3:  Desire dynamics of deployment

1.  Identifying and addressing barriers to sexual excitement within the relationship.
2.  Exploring personalized strategies to rekindle passion and intimacy.
3.  Implementing techniques for effective communication and understanding each partner's desires and needs.

Session 4:  Passionate Reconnaissance: Igniting Intimate Thrills

1.  Reflecting on progress made within coaching.
2.  Recognizing and celebrating milestones and positive changes.
3.  Reinforcing the resilience and strength gained through the program.

Session 5:  Victory Formation:  Celebrating Acheivements

1.  Creating a personalized plan for thriving intimacy in a military partnership.
2.  Discussing long-term strategies for sustaining a strong and passionate military relationship.
3.  Providing resources for continued support and growth beyond the program.


Session 6:  Maintaining Love Armor

A sex and relationship coaching package for military couples

Love armor:  Fortify your intimacy - An intimacy healing journey for military couples

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🌟 With a certification in sex coaching and lived experience navigating the challenges of unplanned and planned separations in a military relationship, Dr. Norelyn is on a mission to revolutionize the way we approach sex and relationships.

Dr. Norelyn decided to focus her doctoral research on developing a new paradigm of sex and relationships within the military resiliency training framework. She uses her experience to serve military and civilian couples, to break down the barriers in their sexual intimacy and deepen their relationships so that they thrive towards a passionate and vibrant sex life.  Her goal? To go beyond traditional relationship counseling to provide a safe space to talk about it all–the spicy, the sensual, the adventurous parts of our intimate journeys.

But wait, there's more! Dr. Norelyn isn't just a sex coach—she's also a distinguished faculty member at Sex Coach U. While she may be shaping the minds of future sex coaches, her heart lies in the transformative work she does with her clients.

Bringing her background in sexological bodywork and the latest, most exciting techniques, Dr. Norelyn is your go-to sex coach for reviving those sex lives that need a little extra TLC. With her, you're not just getting a coach; you're getting a passionate ally on your journey to rediscovering the joy of intimacy and pleasure!

So, whether you're a military couple facing unique challenges or a civilian duo looking to spice things up, Dr. Norelyn is here to guide you toward a sex life that's not just good but downright extraordinary! 💑✨

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